One of the huge benefits of Intensive Interaction was demonstrated to me this afternoon when we did our six monthly trip to the dentist. Henry attends an access dental centre which specialises in treating people with additional needs, but even though they’re infinitely patient with him, our visits tend to be swift, with the dentist getting a snatched look at his teeth at best. But this time was different. Instead of pacing the room before being coaxed onto the chair, he jumped on straight away and sat there nonchalantly swigging minty water while I talked to the dentist. Instead of assuming his usual rigid half sitting up ‘fight or flight’ position when the chair was raised he lay flat, grinning up at the dentist and her assistant. I knew what was coming. ‘Tickle my tummy’ he said. ‘Be noisy’. And to their credit, they did both. After that, opening his mouth was a doddle. Teeth were seen that haven’t been examined closely for years. I wish I’d had a camera with me, as it was a really joyous occasion – and how often can any of us say that about the dentist?
I’ve written before about how Intensive Interaction has made Henry see all adults as a potential source of entertainment and that was definitely part of what was happening this afternoon. But it has also helped him to trust and to relax. The familiar play routines seem to give him security in potentially stressful situations and he uses them socially, a bit like conversation, to gauge whether an adult is worthy of attention and response. To him, this afternoon, opening his mouth (and, crucially, keeping it open), rather than being an instruction imposed on him by a stranger, was part of the whole business of back and forth interaction.